I hate admitting it, but it's possible you're right. Hmmm... it just isn't what I thought last September when she told me she really loved me (and she keeps repeating this) and wanted to stay together... So I guess I believed it. But she had a boyfriend of 5 years prior to me who she broke up with before she came to the USA. She said she wanted even though she was returning to the Czech Republic. After a couple months she became "confused". Naive me. I think the comments I've heard about her being polite are pretty close to the mark. Stupid me. It was my idea to end things before she returned to the CR, and SHE wanted to stay together, and I agreed... What gets me is that I was doing it because she said she really lvoed me, at which point I thought "Wow, she really wants to be with me." I was impressed. I'm not impressed now. I just believed her.