Yikes, my friend, that's all I can say to that website. 'Drama of the gifted only child', an abused one no less, the model scene at that level of emotional development-- sorta has danger written all over it-- I think sometimes little girls need boundaries, and perhaps it is not our job to provide them. One could end up a dormat to her adulthood, and then left to wallow in her muck! Will difinitely be adjusting my parameters to the "over 30" category, It's one thing to be a daddy to kids, but not to a spouse. I am sorry you got trapped in this, but what a trap... Glad to hear you got out of that one alive!!