Actually in Michigan. Although I did live in Corpus Christi for 2 years. It happens in both states. OK, clear this up. Were you dissed or were you dissing the girl? And now you feel guilty? A man can be respectful and not be a wuss. There's nothing badass about some guy thinking that some woman is actually sitting by the phone for one month. It's rudeass. It's a game. There is nothing wrong with that, as long as you are honest with yourself and any women you date. My point is don't tell other women how much you hate b :evil: chy American women and that you would like to be with a nice sweet woman then turn around and be back with the Amozonian. To tell the truth in person I like to observe other people. Like see who tourists are by thier outfits, watch middle-aged overwieght, bald men in speedos on the beach hitting on women, how people act in bars. So I guess maybe I do the same thing on message boards. This is kind of anthropoligical. I just kind of wonder what makes men tick. While I truly believe there are many people of other cultures who meet, date and marry each other. I believe there are quite a few men who go out of their way to meet women outside of his culture. And this is probably not just an American thing. Think about "ethnic cleansing". Not that I condone that, but my point is there may be something ingrained to the male brain to go outside of his culture. This is not an obsession for women. If that were the case when men raided villages instead of just rapi8ng the women they would also bring back men to thier sisters and widowed mothers, but this is not the case. Take for instance the white and hispanic population in Texas. Julio has the hots for Billie Jean. Bubba Joe has the hots for Juanita. Billie Jean has the hots for Bubba Joe and Juanita has the hots for Julio. I think I just started a story for a new soap opera :lol: .